I firstly want to express how honoured I am to be part of some of your most private desires. Kink runs in my blood. Just as my love for art or music is so intrinsically part of who I am, kink always has been also. It’s far more than some sort of sexual transaction, rather, an exchange of an exploration of power which can be expressed in a multitude of ways. The psychological connection underpins everything I enjoy when both submitting and dominating.
While we may see BDSM publicly as 50 Shades and whips and chains, you and I are privy to the private knowledge that true kink can be effective with no tools whatsoever. That said, tools are a whole lot of fun…
Before entering the world of professional companionship, I never knew there was a term that explained what’s always come so naturally to me. To ‘switch’ between my dominant and submissive tendencies has been a theme throughout my life. After all, every connection is different, we all change throughout our lives, out interests expand and our desires shift. Switching doesn’t mean that our time together has to be spent with clear distinctions between who is dominating or submitting and when (however, we absolutely can play in this way). It often looks much more like something fluid, which developed organically as we test each others needs and limits.
Whatever it is you’ve been wanting to try, I want to try it with you. From ropes, shibari and tying, to elaborate fantasies and role-play we are free to explore. Some things I especially love are sensory play and deprivation, service submission, domestic duties, pampering, collaring, orgasm denial, pet play impact play and wax play - but the list is far too long to go on with here, and these don’t even begin to encapsulate the complexity of what gets me off when playing.
As with any responsible kink practitioner, I base all of my interactions on consent, communication, and the building of trust between us. Having a little think about your limits and safe words before we meet is something I strongly advise. In addition to this, a chat over the phone during which we can run through how you’d like our date to go, your likes and dislikes, what’s on your sexual bucket list, is one of the best ways to get us acquainted. And of course, kink isn’t always sexual: nothing at all is stopping us for still enjoying a show and some dinner together, whether or not our boudoir dynamic continues into our social interactions. And of course, let me know of any of your favourite spots to enjoy a show and some dinner together - or, if you’re new in town, I’ll make sure you experience some of the essential London spots!