Companionship, Friendship and Us
At the risk of sounding contrived, within the context of of this website and my social media accounts being as ~marketing~ as the sky is blue, I have to say it: sex workers are the best friends you could wish to find in this life. If you stick around long enough in this industry, and weather a few friendship trials and tribulations, if you figure out your own unique ways to stay grounded and to find a sense of integrity that resounds with you, I promise that you will find the greatest of friends in your colleagues that you could ever have wished for. You will experience some steep learning curves and you will have to engage with some unexpectedly unique challenges, but I promise you: you will find your people, and they will understand your incredibly unusual, diverse and, simply, your batshit-crazy life experience like no other can.
It takes time, it takes learning, it takes a steady commitment to personal growth that will feel a little like an uphill sprint at points. An uphill sprint while wearing boots. Made of concrete. With a sprained ankle. Or two. But, the rare and complex things about you (which drew you to this work in the first place) are what will form the foundations of some of the most fulfilling relationships you will ever forge in this short life. And they will be with your colleagues.
Also, you'll get to make out with them.
In all seriousness, you will find yourself in some utterly surreal scenarios in which you are surrounded by unfathomably beautiful, charming, intelligent women - who you are able to share the deepest platonic love with, whilst simultaneously embarking on the excitement and satisfaction of sexual liberation together. There are few worlds in which you can share your soul with your girlfriends whilst spooning in Bordelle, after the most mind blowing group rendezvous. I like how unknowable that is to so many people, uninitiated and unaware. I like how deeply I can be known only by other companions - the people in this life that I can trust to understand me viscerally and completely, often just with a shared glance in a fleeting moment. And I love that occasionally, a man is invited in to this moment, bearing witness to the truth before him: that two hot girls are getting off, and that he is the luckiest man in the world to be along for the ride.
In celebration of friendship, I've reinstated my Friends page here. Go, have a glance, and consider getting lucky with some of the best women I know.